If you’ve had a breakup of late and suddenly found that the love of your life has become an ex now, don’t panic. You can learn good tactics and know how to get your ex back within a month or so.
First of all, take a deep breath and recall whatever happened before the break-up. Sure thing, it would be quite painful to go through that parting-off process, but this will basically help you in analyzing your mistakes, and ensuring that you don’t repeat the same in future. So, your major step would be to jot down these mistakes, and find ways to correct them. It might have been a silly fight about lack of time, miscommunication or anything else, but each small issue has to be fixed before the relationship can become sweet as before.
Getting your ex back is all about correcting the mistakes, and re-walking the beautiful romantic path, which led you to become partners in past. When you had done it once, you can do it again as well, though the only thing would be that it’s always a lot difficult second time. Remember, if your ex loved you truly, she would wait for you to understand the cause of break-up and do the needful to get her back. Usually women don’t prefer break-ups until it becomes inevitable; at the same time, they wait for their partners for sometime, as it’s hard to put an end to a long-term relationship all of a sudden, and forget about the same.
Having done the homework, you can call up your partner, keep dropping casual e-mails, text messages, and make her realize that you still care about her equally. Occasionally, keep passing smiles if you’re passing by, and offer her your friendship, which she’s most likely to accept.
As days pass by, try to make her feel comfortable and cared about by doing all those sweet little things that she simply loved. Remember not to do something, which used to annoy her in past. Over time, you’ll find that your ex will slowly fall for you again, and it’ll be just be a matter of reviving those feelings, which have been buried up deep inside her heart
Continue with the resurrection act, until you feel you’ve created more than a soft corner in her heart once again, and swoosh! Here you’ve your ex, once again back in your life, like ever before. Usually, if you act smartly, it doesn’t take more than a month or two, but depending upon your situation and relationship terms, the duration may vary.
While these are the things that you should do, there are some mistakes that you should avoid.